All our lives are beautiful, if only we can think above its bias all the times or fewer times. Started thinking about this blog 2 days ago. But, I was not sure if life has been partial or prejudice to me. For sure life wasn’t partial, but people were. Life wasn’t prejudice, because things always turn out to be better than what I plan them to be. So, why life seems to be so biased? Probably, to train our minds, emotions and soul for better tomorrow.
One thing we may have realized is that life is best of all teachers, and worst of instructors. Unlike teachers life first take tests and then present the lessons. Life is such a simple word with most complex yet intriguing meaning. People meditate for years to understand life, it may so appear. But, true yogis meditate to train themselves to become compatible for lessons of lifetimes. Life can be biased in so many ways, if we really think about it. But, sometimes in moments of epiphany we may realize that life has given us all other characteristics to beat somethings against us.
We all like partiality in favor of ourselves but not prejudice. But, all actions have repercussions. Partiality done to someone can be slow poison, in both directions. If someone let us say, was born lucky will never know fruits of labor and love. They may grow taste to effortlessness and likely to be insensitive. My love recently stated that life is may be easier to women but not for men. I wanted to reply but silence is best reply to the ignorant once. My answer was- we females live in men’s world, we are continuously treated as another species. Even if, we are responsible for future of species. Is life partial to us:No. But, men and we ourselves are.
Life appears to be hugely biased all the times, but it is not. It is just guiding us for better choices. One of my friends has been looking for job since last 1.5 years, and yet there is no success. It has been tiring and disappointing time for her. And, now she believes she is lacking something. For me as a recruiter, she is overly qualified. Way over then required to restart at ground zero. Her resume is filled with details of her job responsibilities from past 2 or somethings years of job experience, which further complicate things. This is apart from her personal life, which may or may not be perfect. Does her life seems to be perfect? or Bias in comparison to others? I supposed I should even use a word perfect in a sentence about her life. But, yes her life is biased. Bias against to let her settle for pity little jobs. Biased towards a better opportunity somewhere in future. We all should wait through the bias-ness of life and watch out until things settles.
Truly, life is biased for us, against in the moment, till moment is right. It reflect all its prejudice against our desires, until something worth waiting for is living reality. So, if life plays games on you, wait if it is annoying. And play along with life if you’re playful and sarcastic, like me. My life acts like a hoe, always needing attention, which I never give it. So, drama in my life goes around at a safe distance, while I enjoy making fun of my hoe life. It is hard to take life so easily. Because, despair may blind the desperate and desperate times need desperate actions. But, only patience is the key, when life is playing dirty games on us. So, wait with all you got, and put in all you got when time is right.